(INTRODUCTION) HE WHO FINDS A WIFE
INTRODUCTION There is a question that every young man eventually faces, whether he voices it aloud or carries it silently in his heart: How do I find the woman I am meant to marry? Some men answer that question by waiting. They sit still, hoping that one day a wife will somehow appear — as if God were in the business of dropping fully formed marriages into the laps of passive men. Others answer it by rushing. They chase every pretty face, give their hearts away carelessly, and end up wounded and confused. And still others answer it by ignoring it altogether, burying themselves in work, in hobbies, or in fear, until the years quietly slip away. But Scripture gives a very different answer. Proverbs 18:22 declares, "He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD." Notice the word finds. It is an active word. It speaks of searching, of moving, of taking responsibility. A man does not stumble into a godly marriage by accident. He does not receive a wife ...